Your Personal Online Matrimonial Profile
Your personal wedding profile online is enhanced and you post your best photos. Now proceed to the next step. Time to start connecting with profiles that you are interested in. I would suggest that, send them a message (via their profile on chart.com) to let them know that you are interested and would like to go to the next level of communication. Here are some tips to help you get started on your first relationship in a positive way to build lasting relationships.
First Vision
In an Internet connection the first impression depends on 3 key factors.
Your profile (ShuduTumi)
Your picture
First email messages
Anytime, you send a message to someone and if they like your email they will immediately go and read your profile. This is why your profile should be marked with a profile picture.
If you are writing a special email to someone make sure you have read their profile. It would be nice, if you could send a polite message letting them know you liked their profile and find some interesting stuff. Take advantage of their profile if you come across something that interests them, hobbies or other accomplishments later that you can ask about. It will help you, build a common ground in your first conversation. Then, if you get a positive response, let them know when to expect your phone call at a time that is convenient for them.
First call
Most importantly let the person know when to expect your call so that they do not get busy. Allowing them for a while to check your profile. It is always better than a cold phone call from a stranger. The initial conversations should not be difficult or confusing but should be fun and enjoyable. Here are a few tips you will find useful before calling someone special.
Modesty and self-confidence
Practicing good habits is always beneficial and cool. So, call them and be polite and sound confident without pressure. Imagine you are calling a good friend and smiling. You are obviously looking forward to the conversation, let them know and ask some questions in their profile.
Keep the conversation simple
You can start with simple questions about their interests. For example, if they are talking about road trips, movies or books. You can ask questions about any recent movies they have seen, books they have read or food choices. Show interest and enthusiasm, talk about your family, friends and any recent exciting events in your life. It does not mean that you need to discuss every detail of your life with someone who has not yet decided to settle down for the rest of your life.
Topics to avoid
You should avoid talking about negative or unpleasant things or situations. There are no conversations, about your past relationships, religion or politics or hardships in life.
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